6 Simple Ways to Get STARTED on Your Messes!

We’ve all stood in the doorway, staring at a cluttered room, feeling that sinking “where do I even start?” feeling.

Take a deep breath, you don’t have to tackle it all at once. The trick is to just do something, and once you do, momentum often kicks in. Here are six simple ways to break through the overwhelm and begin right now:

1 - Make It Fun — Invite a Friend, Turn Up the Tunes

Decluttering doesn’t have to be miserable. Call a supportive friend or family member to help, or simply put on your favorite upbeat playlist. Music lifts your mood and gets you moving. Research even shows it can boost productivity and energy!

Bonus Tip: Set a small reward for yourself when you’re done, perhaps a nice coffee, a walk outside, chat with a friend, or a relaxing bath.

2 - Start with the Easy Wins — Trash & Obvious Donations

Before you even think about sorting drawers or deep decluttering, grab a bag and toss any obvious trash. Next, pull out anything you instantly know you don’t need — the clothes that don’t fit, duplicates, or gifts you never liked. Quick wins build confidence and clear visible space fast!

3 - Pick ONE Tiny Zone

One shelf. One countertop. One square foot of the room. Don’t try to “clean the whole room” — pick a micro-zone and focus only there until it’s done. Small bites keep you from spiraling into overwhelm.

4 - Set a Timer and Race the Clock

If you’re still stuck, grab your phone and set a timer for just 10 or 15 minutes. Tell yourself you only have to declutter until the timer goes off. This little trick takes the pressure off.  Trust me, anyone can do something for a few minutes! You’ll be amazed how much you can clear when you race the clock. And once you’re on a roll, you might just keep going.

5 - Give Yourself Permission to Begin Imperfectly

You don’t need a perfect plan or fancy organizing bins. The goal is just to start. Imperfect action beats stalled perfection every time, and each small step makes the next one easier.

6 - Get Curious: Why Did This Happen?

Sometimes the biggest mess isn’t the stuff, it’s what’s underneath it. Take a moment to pause and get curious about why the clutter is there in the first place.  Ask yourself:

•  Am I too tired or rushed to put things away?
•  Do I own more than this space can reasonably hold?
•  What was I hoping this stuff would do for me, comfort, security, identity?
•  Did I shop for a quick mood boost but end up with too much stuff?
•  What am I avoiding by not tackling this?
•  If I cleared this, how would I feel when I walk into the room?

Getting curious brings awareness, and awareness leads to change. 

You may discover that a few simple shifts, like stopping impulse purchases, creating better storage, or setting clear boundaries for what belongs in your space that will make staying organized so much easier next time.

Clutter never disappears overnight, but once you take that first step, you’re on your way. Pick one idea from this list, do it today, get started, and see. I promise your overwhelm will start to fade!